Jail, Bail, and Hostility.

Just in case we have any newbies reading...
SD = Sperm Donor, my kid's dad.
AK = Awesome Kid, my child.
IB = Irritating Bitch, SD's girlfriend.

So, Thursday afternoon, I call SD's mom to tell her about the awesome things they're doing for AK at his new daycare. She just happens to mention "Oh yeah, they arrested SD yesterday."
Lol, whut?
Sure enough, apparently Wednesday afternoon, they showed up at IB's house and arrested SD. They also told IB's mother since they were throwing a tantrum that they had until Thursday around noon to post his bail or they would be transporting him to my county, about an hour and a half away. So, guess who posted his $1,300+ bail? Bail that will be going towards his child support? IB's mom, since IB is unemployed and claims to be disabled due to high blood pressure and asthma.
I was in some pretty serious shell shock. I mean, wow. After all this time, they finally got him. And for one night, he was being held responsible. And now, most of his child support is paid up? Too much to process all at once. I won't even lie, I danced, I sang, I gladly did my little victory dance.
But, curiosity got the best of me as usual, and I checked out SD's facebook account from my fake one just to see if he was cursing at me, threatening, etc. I'm not about to pass up something that could really nail his ass in court when I file for full custody, no visitation. While I can't prove it was aimed at me, I know it was, but since I can't directly print it out and say "Look Judge, this is what he said." I left it be. SD posted a photo to his FB after he was bailed out stating "So I heard you've been spreading rumors about me. Good to know you've found something else to spread other than your legs." The flaws to that logic is that in almost three years, my 'legs' have only 'spread' for one person, being my husband. Not that SD can say the same.
So anyways, we have court Monday, which I'm also confused about. When I checked my online C/S case Thursday night, it said that Monday was court for his failure to appear which I did not plan to show up for considering it has nothing to do with the child support, and a hearing was scheduled for 1/14 for failure to comply with a court order (Child Support). But, I checked last night and the hearing for 1/14 has been removed, and Monday is now for failure to comply which means I do need to go. However, SD's mother said that SD got in touch with the case worker (Which I highly freaking doubt, I've been trying to contact that woman 3-4 times a week for 3-4 months with not a single call back, I've even had to go to her supervisor which STILL didn't accomplish anything) and she said that he did not need to show up Monday since IB's mother posted bail. I'm calling shenanigans on the entire situation, so I'm going.
We shall see...And of course, even if it takes me a few days, I will keep you guys updated. Thanks for making the journey with me thus far.